
Why do I face the consequences of Adam’s sin when I did not eat the fruit?
The short answer to this question is: because God is not an individualist. There is a strong push in this world, especially in western culture, to be seen as an individual only responsible for your own life. But this clearly is not how life works. Your skin color and eye color are determined by who your parents are. On a deeper biological level, many issues affecting your health are determined by who your parents are. You have the same influence in the lives of your children. The opportunities you get in life to a large degree are determined by your upbringing and your surroundings. You receive opportunities from actions of the people around you, and by your actions you contribute to the opportunities they get or lack.
It is possible to see this as regrettable. But in reality, it is part of the glory of being human. We are not like solitary planets that have to succeed or fail totally upon our own terms. We are part of families, networks, communities, nations that deeply impact who we are and what we do. Being human is living in relationship, and these relationships – especially those with our parents – deeply influence who we are.
When Adam, the first man, sinned, he broke his connection with God. He changed. He became a sinner. That did not just mean that he became a sinner because he had committed a sin. His rebellion against God changed his heart. Because he broke the connection with God, he now had a disposition to sin in his heart. That had consequences for everybody who came after Adam.
Why do I face the consequences of Adam’s sin when I did not eat the fruit?

The short answer to this question is: because God is not an individualist. There is a strong push in this world, especially in western culture, to be seen as an individual only responsible for your own life. But this clearly is not how life works. Your skin color and eye color are determined by who your parents are. On a deeper biological level, many issues affecting your health are determined by who your parents are. You have the same influence in the lives of your children. The opportunities you get in life to a large degree are determined by your upbringing and your surroundings. You receive opportunities from actions of the people around you, and by your actions you contribute to the opportunities they get or lack.
It is possible to see this as regrettable. But in reality, it is part of the glory of being human. We are not like solitary planets that have to succeed or fail totally upon our own terms. We are part of families, networks, communities, nations that deeply impact who we are and what we do. Being human is living in relationship, and these relationships – especially those with our parents – deeply influence who we are.
When Adam, the first man, sinned, he broke his connection with God. He changed. He became a sinner. That did not just mean that he became a sinner because he had committed a sin. His rebellion against God changed his heart. Because he broke the connection with God, he now had a disposition to sin in his heart. That had consequences for everybody who came after Adam.
